Getting married is NOT just ROMANTIC encounters.
In my last post, few days ago I have said that inter caste married just involve complexities just in the form of "wedding rituals". Yes???
NO!!!
I want to here add one more point here, inter caste wedding doesn't revolve around just the wedding rituals or surname that girl gets, BUT it is more and most difficult to understand.
Let me give you one example-
1. In one family there is a ritual that a daughter in law of a family will cover her head in front of elders and cook food and serve and then eat that alone. and on hand, daughter in law can wear normal pajmas with there sasur ji and cook food like pasta or maggi and share the food in same plate and enjoy the meal.
This is one example.
Might be its little awkward for me to elaborate, but very simple to understand.
Caste or surname is NOT just in the name that girl gets after wedding. BUT it is a kind of the RULE of particular family that girl have to abide of.
Some gets betters and fewer get worst and some gets equal too.
Hello Guys and welcome to my blog!
Today I am here with you to discuss few points that every couple that are going to get married MUST Discuss Before Getting Married to avoid all the chaos and misunderstanding.
It is just as " read all the documents and rules before investing " (wink)
Happy Reading !!!
1. Surname
Before getting married it is very important to talk with the guy before getting married in the regard of the post wedding name/ surname. In few family, there is a ritual that the name of the girl will the change as per the requirement of future family. It is actually weird but it happens in some cases. Changing surnames is very normal here but how you will take that, it will matters like:
- Sia arora
- Sia raj sharma
- Sia sharma
- Sia arora Sharma
Many men want there lady to change to option 2 here. But it will depends person to person. This change of surname or simply the name MUST be discuss beforehand.
2. Vegan/ Non Vegan
Eating in India is very important thing. What if the husband is vegan and girl is not OR vice versa??? obviously girl have to change.
NO!!! the story is not that easy as it looks.
Please make sure this topic is discussed between you both:)
If boy is non vegan
- If boy is non vegan than cooking in house will be allowed nor not.
- Who will cook
- who will wash non vegan cookware after using'
- How many times these dishes will be cooked in houses
- How about children?? will they be non vagan ONLY??
If boy is vegan
- Can girl eat no vegan dishes at home
- can she she cook at home
- Can she make the children non vegan?
UFF!!!
3. Saving
This is very important to understand the amount of salary they both get and how much they save. Saving is very important. Make sure you both are transparent and make sure a wise decision for future and children.
They are main 3 things that you must add in your conversation to keep the wedding safe and less chaotic :)
God bless :)
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