That one Quality !!!

We are are into relationship. We all have boyfriends. We want to get married to whom we love right??? But Have you ever think that as  girlfriend what you expect our boyfriend to be  and MUCH more from our husbands?
Hello and welcome to my blog.
Today I get a very simple yet complicated topic into my blog.
The transformation of a bf into husband is itself a BIG achievement.
YES!!!
NO!!
I mean the process when you are having love marriage, the main topic we keep in our mind is that now you have taken your love into the finish line and now you call call yourselves as WINNERS.
BUT letme tell you all girls that please wait for a minute and decide what is the main quality you or your mother always talks about that she wishes in her husband.
Is that quality is available in your boy friend?

Just read this pointers-

1. We meet weekly with them
2. Usually we meet alone
3. Main thing we people do are bike ride, fooding or taking out pictures.
4. Discussing main life saving problem are never in your plan.

RIGHT?

But do you think that these four things are good enough to judge someone as your life partners???

NO!!!

I want several qualities in my husband- hopefully you too have :)



1. Support me in my decision
2. Don't restrict me in financial matters, i mean he wont take all my salary and force me to spend as per his needs. I want to spend as my own mind. I want to make house renovations, save for my new home, save for my children or just save for my 2nd honeymoon. That will be an individual choice.  I personally don't want my husband to restrict me in this kind.
3. Respect me and my decision in front of his family.
4. Respect my family as well
5. Must be romantic.

All these qualities can never be judged in love relationship tenure.

We never think that way.

But without talking these issues in our mind, if we tend to get married and sense that your bf is matured enough to understand all these is not his not ours MISTAKE.

You all have to understand that wedding required lots of money and respect. Whole society is involve in this

RIGHT???
What if these quality are NOT available in your so called perfect bf that you have married to???

1. You will compromise and your life will suck.
2. You will fight back and make your family worst and your future a Hell bad.
3. You will take a divorce and make your family suffer for no reason??

That can be ever worst than this.

I just want to complete this write up just be saying that before taking this wedding decision, please girls take a wise choice and tell your guy about your expectation from him.

God bless :)

How to make your little bedroom looks stylish?

We are Indian and most of us belongs to middle class family. We usually go for house renovation at daughter marriage days that we believe that  the house must look like palace when boy's family get into the house and gives a good impression on them.
Hello and welcome to my blog guys.

I am 25 years of age and i am experiencing the same mind set of my parents that are doing every possible efforts to renovate my house from up side down to keep it most appealing and good to see.

Well I really don't understand the concept behind this. But if you ask me, I love to see my house make over and DONTwant to stop them either.

I am loving it.

So keeping in mind the India's infrastructural style of house, I have list out very easy and cost effective ways to make the bed room looks very classy and nice to look out.

I hope you will love them:)

1. Remove the junk

First thing first, you all have to understand that your parents will never throw away the old stuff to the junk just to make your room look good. Make them understand that if you use lesser products in rooms, that will intern make the room bigger and neater.

• Remove old looking dressing table right away.
• Remove the breif cases and bags that they have put on the admirals
• Remove the study table/ computer table
• There is NO use of plastic chairs and stool in the rooms
• Take all the blanket under the bed and never use all the stuff here there that are NOT using for years.
• Never put crockery on the bed room only coz you can keep them in the kitchen in the fear that they might Brock down into pieces

2. Remove the dressing table 

Here I am  not talking about the design of the dressing table that are more used to put the stuff like tea cups, make up kits or other kind just to make the room messy. 

First a fall they look bulky and very difficult to clean each day.

RIGHT??

So, what I suggest here is that- take mirror out of this old looking dressing table and frame that in your own style and attached that on the wall.

You can use light over that and shelves with that.

It will just cost you Rs 500. Trust me.

It will make your room bigger and neater in just one single step.

just look at this.

And play with our ideas.

This is wow na???

I love it.

2. Remove the bed backs with new looking velvet style fabrics.

This step you can take as DIY. You just have to remove the bed back that is ugly and wooden that is making your room all more depressing by replacing them with new bed back that will be easily available in any furniture shop or they too customized them for you. That will cost as less than 4000 Rs.

JUst see the transformations:

This is old looking ugly kind of bed:(




This is something you can transformed it to :)









Dont get shocked guys.. furniture shop wale do this stuff very easily :)

3. Add some gadgets 


No room can look perfect with out some very essential set of gadgets.








5. After adding these gadgets, its time to add curtains :)

I suggest play with the shade and curtain texture. I prefer velvet fabric and always use same same of room paint, bed back and curtain, it will give your room a very new look.









Thats all :)

JUst do these steps :) it will give your bed room a nice make over :)
If you want, you can too add on the painting and clocks !!!