What to wear when you are meeting your boy friend parents first time.

Being in India and telling your parents that you are dating someone is like imaging a flying chappal towards you! 
Hello and welcome to my blog. Today I am solely writing on one topic that will revolve around the garments that you must choose to wear when you are having your first meet with future in lows.

Things that you must keep in your mind.
1. Your body type
2. colors that looks best on you
3. Simple and elegance are best to opt
4. Choice of wearing most be of your guy.

The clothes that you are choosing for the meet must be very comfortable and not so flashy. Always keep in your mind that every parent want to see there childern sobar and smart. No parent want to see a bar dancer kind of dressing on her daughter or daughter in law.

Be classy and wear your smile with you!

Here I have selected top 5 garments that you can shop if you are confuse what to wear for the meeting.

5. Crop Top with floral skirt

http://www.faballey.com/vivid-blooms-silk-maxi-skirt-87



It is very girlish and you can too team up with long top if you are not okay with crop one.

4. Hem top

http://www.koovs.com/koovs-flamingo-palm-print-extreme-hem-top-62746.html?utm_source=vizury&utm_medium=cpa&utm_campaign=vizury_facebook&utm_content=1007705710



This hem top is simple and gives a very ethnic looks with lots of class and decent approach. This top will help you to impress your in lows with charm woo to your man.

3. Kurti

http://www.flipkart.com/rain-rainbow-striped-women-s-kurti/p/itmdp8y3pmvgytqf?pid=KRTDP8Y3RPHHMZUU&al=P2CFy2OBap77MDetXx8%2FMsldugMWZuE7O96I17%2B9oWniVOhBabqxWxXvc5ZStvIDZePA9R0BohM%3D&ref=L%3A-8433598706918341936&srno=b_6



This is my favorite. You can play with the color according to your skin tone and body type and surely as per your man choice.

2. Saree

http://www.flipkart.com/jhalak-fashion-embriodered-bollywood-net-sari/p/itme88gytycpytjc?pid=SARE88GYT2Y5YP4V&al=P2CFy2OBap6n1NrsGGTkBcldugMWZuE7eGHgUTGjVrrW%2Fvx0j21%2Bxm%2FGWyz%2Bmj822kXi%2F8wLKWo%3D&ref=L%3A-4930553581367573454&srno=b_44





If the meeting is perfect when you are going for a formal dinner with your parent in laws.

1. Palazzo Pants

http://globaldesi.anitadongre.com/shop-by-category/suits/aquamarine-2-piece-set.html





This suit is offered by global desi brands that promises of offer best look and finish. It is polyester finished that is shiny and body fitted.

I hope you are buying them all as when you started meeting your future parents, you tend to shop lot ore as meeting must be pretty frequent. (wink).

Problem of two states love stories...

Well you must be thinking that two states is so old and gone that reading a blog on it is not a good option. Reading somebodies blog on the things that are gone and dead are pretty boring. For me also, if someone ask me to read a blog on kuch kuch hota hai, i will surely say that i am not fucking mad to waste 20 minutes of my busy life on reading on dead issues.

But guys, i am here to share my feeling on something else.

Yes! two states here is neither evolving about the chetan bhagat book nor alia bhatt movie, but the complication that come into your life when you get into a serious relationship with other state/ caste or religion boy.

Firstly it seems like:

1. we are so cool to deal with it, now this caste system doestn matter
2. He is working well, I am doing well in my career and else we dont care
3. Love is all enough to get married

But when actually you tend to get into all this marriage drama then it actually comes a evil knowledge that Indian society holds for years.

If you love someone and that someone is not from your caste, then this problem arises.

"sab kuch sahi hai, main problem tab ayegi tab they get to know that you are not in my caste"

WHAT???

i mean you good, you loves me, I love you and I know we are so perfect with each other but we cant marry you because we are not in one caste?

Really???

It is really difficult to digest.

You know when this caste rituals actually comes a major role?

It is in marriage rituals.

ONLY.

In some caste, couple do the feres and some other caste do the christ rituals.

Some do the gurudware feres and some do the agni feres.

BUT all the caste and religions in the end tells the same thing that the couple have to love each other, be loyal and live happily after that.

YOU agree??

You tell me, after or before marriege rituals, when these caste rituals comes in our life.

Do it comes in the clothing? do they comes in breathing? do it comes in living or do they play any role in getting  job or having babies??

NO.

They never.

They can't.

Actually.. marrying a person of different caste is not a big thing. 

It hardly matters, if we think deep to this things.

If boy's family think that they are sharma's and girl is arora, imposingly, do it matters that much that they can stop these individual to get married as these marrying rituals are different.

If it that important, then they can't marry in both kinds one by one??

And if the caste is that important then boy's family can't think that after getting married, the girl will surely transformed into Sharma after getting married

This problem, i think, only exists in India.

I dont know why?

Well I wont say more.

I just want to get it done.. easily and smoothly without much complications.

I just want to do something different and BIG.

If I can do something of this kind, i will be proud deep in my heart.