Well being in a relationship is not a new thing in our culture. All of us are dating and have a loving partners. Some of us love one person or fewer of us have more than one relation in there life too. But I can be sure of one thing that one, two or more, we all have one special guy whom we love a lot and want to marry. Having a Arrange marriage is not a tradition now. I think.
Hello guys! From my last post of august, i am here again with my new post that is entirely revolve around women prospective. I am 25 now and planning to get married is most obvious thing in my life (wink).
This post is here due to few reasons. They are as follows:
1. I am the next one in the family to get married.
2. I have a bf whom I want to marry.
3. My family don't know about him
4. My bf is not sure about the age that we must get married
5. His family dont know about us
6. Whole of the world is getting married
7. Every person on this earth is forcing me to get settled (in my mind at least )
So My motive here is not to telling my parent or plan to make my wedding all more classy and great.
But I am here with one confusion in my mind that land me here in this post.
1. Should I make my mind to get married.
2. Should I tell my guy to tell his family
3. Should I tell my family
4. Should I go for fake arrange marriage searching option
5. What is a max age to stop my plan not to telling my family?
6. Is waiting is a worth option?
7. How to get the perfect suggestion?
Well.. All these questions are not easy as you all reading in this post.
Might be many of girls at my age are facing the same problem. Or something like:
1. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. But family is not agreeing.
2. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. but family (half) not agreeing.
3. Girl is ready. But boy is not ready. Family is not ready.
4. Girl is ready. Boy is not ready. family is ready.
Well I sorry for making you confuse.
We all want to get proposed from the one you actually want to get married.
But have you ever thought of the situation if you are ready, your boy is ready and somewhat your family is ready, but still you are at No where!!!
Yes!!!
What if you parents know about your relationship and and they have no problem supporting you. and adding to that your guy too want to marry you?
Bingo. you will say that you will be the most happiest person. Right??
NO!!!
Because here comes my title: Confession or Declaration ???
Parent are the one who get to know you even if you are telling them anything or not. You agree?? But at least telling them the exact situation or the partner that you want to marry is very important.
There are many families who never accept there daughter to do love marriages but there are few family too who want to support there daughter in choosing best husband for them own there own, but still girls can't able to tell them.
What should be talk about that situation??
Might be: guy is not ready in that place??
But what if i will say : guy is equally ready but not confident enough to tell his family.
Yes!!! Thats the main point!
What if every thing is well except the guy's family as they are totally ignorant about the girl.
Whom to be blame at that situation??
Should that girl wait, tell her family at least or move on???
The situation is not that simple as it looks :)
God bless!!!
Hello guys! From my last post of august, i am here again with my new post that is entirely revolve around women prospective. I am 25 now and planning to get married is most obvious thing in my life (wink).
This post is here due to few reasons. They are as follows:
1. I am the next one in the family to get married.
2. I have a bf whom I want to marry.
3. My family don't know about him
4. My bf is not sure about the age that we must get married
5. His family dont know about us
6. Whole of the world is getting married
7. Every person on this earth is forcing me to get settled (in my mind at least )
So My motive here is not to telling my parent or plan to make my wedding all more classy and great.
But I am here with one confusion in my mind that land me here in this post.
1. Should I make my mind to get married.
2. Should I tell my guy to tell his family
3. Should I tell my family
4. Should I go for fake arrange marriage searching option
5. What is a max age to stop my plan not to telling my family?
6. Is waiting is a worth option?
7. How to get the perfect suggestion?
Well.. All these questions are not easy as you all reading in this post.
Might be many of girls at my age are facing the same problem. Or something like:
1. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. But family is not agreeing.
2. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. but family (half) not agreeing.
3. Girl is ready. But boy is not ready. Family is not ready.
4. Girl is ready. Boy is not ready. family is ready.
Well I sorry for making you confuse.
We all want to get proposed from the one you actually want to get married.
But have you ever thought of the situation if you are ready, your boy is ready and somewhat your family is ready, but still you are at No where!!!
Yes!!!
What if you parents know about your relationship and and they have no problem supporting you. and adding to that your guy too want to marry you?
Bingo. you will say that you will be the most happiest person. Right??
NO!!!
Because here comes my title: Confession or Declaration ???
Parent are the one who get to know you even if you are telling them anything or not. You agree?? But at least telling them the exact situation or the partner that you want to marry is very important.
There are many families who never accept there daughter to do love marriages but there are few family too who want to support there daughter in choosing best husband for them own there own, but still girls can't able to tell them.
What should be talk about that situation??
Might be: guy is not ready in that place??
But what if i will say : guy is equally ready but not confident enough to tell his family.
Yes!!! Thats the main point!
What if every thing is well except the guy's family as they are totally ignorant about the girl.
Whom to be blame at that situation??
Should that girl wait, tell her family at least or move on???
The situation is not that simple as it looks :)
God bless!!!
