Forgive !!!

Art of living in my terms is the Art of loving ourselves. Life is not just motion of time that it comes again and again. It comes to you only once. That life surely requires love, peace and forgiveness. Art of loving lies in forgiveness. We meet hundreds of people daily from early morning walk in park to family to meeting people in metros or buses to offices and then any passage of time. Some people are good. Some are bad too. Some people make us smile. Might be fewer hurt us? What exactly what should we do? Keep grudges to our heart. Feel the pain. Or answer them by hurting them again? NO. That not is a solution. We can only reduce fire by putting water on it. Fire is never end with putting more fire to it.

This is not very strange thing that I am talking about. We all know that we must forgive people. But why it is so very difficult for us to move on and forgive people. Among the whole species of world, human are the only species that hurt their own selves over and over again by thinking our past events. I am not saying that forgiveness is forgetting. But I mean by forgiveness is to look deep inside ourselves and think again about the event that took place and make us upset. We have to think even deeper to know the reason and the instances that hurt us. 

Mahatma Gandhi too said that weak will never forgive. It is the feature of strong people. How to true is that. I too wanted to say that when we forgive people, we become much stronger. It will make us stronger from inside, and making us happy and carefree to move on.

Adding to all this, we have to say to ourselves that when we are forgiving people who hurt us, we are indirectly forgiving our own selves. We are forgiving ourselves for giving the other person that chance to hurt us, we are forgiving ourselves to believe that we are victim, we are forgiving ourselves for treated ourselves badly by others. It’s not their mistake to hurt us, it’s our mistake that we have gives that authority to them to hurt us.

So, it’s not forgiving them. It’s all about forgiving our own selves.

So whenever you want to practice this art of living just close your eyes and say to yourselves that you are your own master. You love yourselves. Your heart needs peace. And this is your responsibility to give this “peace” to yourselves. No other factors can take this from you. Take deep breath. Forgive that person that made you cry, that made you weak in front of yourselves, forgive him. And most important forgive yourselves. Your life will have plenty of moments that will make you cherish and happy. You can ignore them just for one person that makes you sad. Forgive him.

You truly sense light and slowly that suffering and pain get vanished.

Love! Forgive! And live your life to the fullest!