That one Quality !!!

We are are into relationship. We all have boyfriends. We want to get married to whom we love right??? But Have you ever think that as  girlfriend what you expect our boyfriend to be  and MUCH more from our husbands?
Hello and welcome to my blog.
Today I get a very simple yet complicated topic into my blog.
The transformation of a bf into husband is itself a BIG achievement.
YES!!!
NO!!
I mean the process when you are having love marriage, the main topic we keep in our mind is that now you have taken your love into the finish line and now you call call yourselves as WINNERS.
BUT letme tell you all girls that please wait for a minute and decide what is the main quality you or your mother always talks about that she wishes in her husband.
Is that quality is available in your boy friend?

Just read this pointers-

1. We meet weekly with them
2. Usually we meet alone
3. Main thing we people do are bike ride, fooding or taking out pictures.
4. Discussing main life saving problem are never in your plan.

RIGHT?

But do you think that these four things are good enough to judge someone as your life partners???

NO!!!

I want several qualities in my husband- hopefully you too have :)



1. Support me in my decision
2. Don't restrict me in financial matters, i mean he wont take all my salary and force me to spend as per his needs. I want to spend as my own mind. I want to make house renovations, save for my new home, save for my children or just save for my 2nd honeymoon. That will be an individual choice.  I personally don't want my husband to restrict me in this kind.
3. Respect me and my decision in front of his family.
4. Respect my family as well
5. Must be romantic.

All these qualities can never be judged in love relationship tenure.

We never think that way.

But without talking these issues in our mind, if we tend to get married and sense that your bf is matured enough to understand all these is not his not ours MISTAKE.

You all have to understand that wedding required lots of money and respect. Whole society is involve in this

RIGHT???
What if these quality are NOT available in your so called perfect bf that you have married to???

1. You will compromise and your life will suck.
2. You will fight back and make your family worst and your future a Hell bad.
3. You will take a divorce and make your family suffer for no reason??

That can be ever worst than this.

I just want to complete this write up just be saying that before taking this wedding decision, please girls take a wise choice and tell your guy about your expectation from him.

God bless :)

How to make your little bedroom looks stylish?

We are Indian and most of us belongs to middle class family. We usually go for house renovation at daughter marriage days that we believe that  the house must look like palace when boy's family get into the house and gives a good impression on them.
Hello and welcome to my blog guys.

I am 25 years of age and i am experiencing the same mind set of my parents that are doing every possible efforts to renovate my house from up side down to keep it most appealing and good to see.

Well I really don't understand the concept behind this. But if you ask me, I love to see my house make over and DONTwant to stop them either.

I am loving it.

So keeping in mind the India's infrastructural style of house, I have list out very easy and cost effective ways to make the bed room looks very classy and nice to look out.

I hope you will love them:)

1. Remove the junk

First thing first, you all have to understand that your parents will never throw away the old stuff to the junk just to make your room look good. Make them understand that if you use lesser products in rooms, that will intern make the room bigger and neater.

• Remove old looking dressing table right away.
• Remove the breif cases and bags that they have put on the admirals
• Remove the study table/ computer table
• There is NO use of plastic chairs and stool in the rooms
• Take all the blanket under the bed and never use all the stuff here there that are NOT using for years.
• Never put crockery on the bed room only coz you can keep them in the kitchen in the fear that they might Brock down into pieces

2. Remove the dressing table 

Here I am  not talking about the design of the dressing table that are more used to put the stuff like tea cups, make up kits or other kind just to make the room messy. 

First a fall they look bulky and very difficult to clean each day.

RIGHT??

So, what I suggest here is that- take mirror out of this old looking dressing table and frame that in your own style and attached that on the wall.

You can use light over that and shelves with that.

It will just cost you Rs 500. Trust me.

It will make your room bigger and neater in just one single step.

just look at this.

And play with our ideas.

This is wow na???

I love it.

2. Remove the bed backs with new looking velvet style fabrics.

This step you can take as DIY. You just have to remove the bed back that is ugly and wooden that is making your room all more depressing by replacing them with new bed back that will be easily available in any furniture shop or they too customized them for you. That will cost as less than 4000 Rs.

JUst see the transformations:

This is old looking ugly kind of bed:(




This is something you can transformed it to :)









Dont get shocked guys.. furniture shop wale do this stuff very easily :)

3. Add some gadgets 


No room can look perfect with out some very essential set of gadgets.








5. After adding these gadgets, its time to add curtains :)

I suggest play with the shade and curtain texture. I prefer velvet fabric and always use same same of room paint, bed back and curtain, it will give your room a very new look.









Thats all :)

JUst do these steps :) it will give your bed room a nice make over :)
If you want, you can too add on the painting and clocks !!!

How to remove the acne scars naturally???

Acne are the evil gifts that you receive at your young age so that you cant make a full use of your beauty and become most beautiful fairy like creature in human counterpart.. ! Well today I am so pissed off because of the acne scares that i cant even think of writing a blog other than this irritating red posts that are ruining my face beauty.
Today we all have some kind of other picture editor available on the mobile that indirectly tells you that your life can be so much beautiful and charming if these scares are not available on the face.
Just look at my face :)

Yes! I know its look so cute and flawless. Right???

But let me just tell you all that its is not that flawless as it looks :(

Yes!

The main point of adding this picture here is that i have a very strong feeling after looking at my picture here is that I have a such a pretty face that is not looking as stunning because of the acne scars that are making my heart sink in deep pain.

Yes! I am not going to add my scare face photo here (wink).

So let me come to the main point of this blog.

I search whole net and invest lots of time in reaching how i can do something naturally that can help me to get my real beauty.

So here are few main pointers.

1. Lemon with honey

Just take a few drops of lemon with honey and tap that on the face where you have acne scares. It will make the color of the scares fade. Lets see, I too have started.

2. Water

Drink lots of water. I mean water is the only liquid that can help to keep the acne scare fade and make the face glowing.

3. Carrot juice

During winters, it is best time of the year where you can work on the acne scares. Drink carrot juice with tomatoes and chukandar. It will make the complication fairer and white keeping the color of the face fade.

4. Tulsi leaves with chandan

You can use tulsi leaves and take a liquid out of that and add chandan powder in it. And put the powder on the scares. It will take time and you yourselves feel the redness of the scares getting reduced.

5. Egg white

This is most trusted method to keep the pores tight and acne scares reduce in much faster manner without much harm to the face.

Try it! Be beautiful!

What to wear when you are meeting your boy friend parents first time.

Being in India and telling your parents that you are dating someone is like imaging a flying chappal towards you! 
Hello and welcome to my blog. Today I am solely writing on one topic that will revolve around the garments that you must choose to wear when you are having your first meet with future in lows.

Things that you must keep in your mind.
1. Your body type
2. colors that looks best on you
3. Simple and elegance are best to opt
4. Choice of wearing most be of your guy.

The clothes that you are choosing for the meet must be very comfortable and not so flashy. Always keep in your mind that every parent want to see there childern sobar and smart. No parent want to see a bar dancer kind of dressing on her daughter or daughter in law.

Be classy and wear your smile with you!

Here I have selected top 5 garments that you can shop if you are confuse what to wear for the meeting.

5. Crop Top with floral skirt

http://www.faballey.com/vivid-blooms-silk-maxi-skirt-87



It is very girlish and you can too team up with long top if you are not okay with crop one.

4. Hem top

http://www.koovs.com/koovs-flamingo-palm-print-extreme-hem-top-62746.html?utm_source=vizury&utm_medium=cpa&utm_campaign=vizury_facebook&utm_content=1007705710



This hem top is simple and gives a very ethnic looks with lots of class and decent approach. This top will help you to impress your in lows with charm woo to your man.

3. Kurti

http://www.flipkart.com/rain-rainbow-striped-women-s-kurti/p/itmdp8y3pmvgytqf?pid=KRTDP8Y3RPHHMZUU&al=P2CFy2OBap77MDetXx8%2FMsldugMWZuE7O96I17%2B9oWniVOhBabqxWxXvc5ZStvIDZePA9R0BohM%3D&ref=L%3A-8433598706918341936&srno=b_6



This is my favorite. You can play with the color according to your skin tone and body type and surely as per your man choice.

2. Saree

http://www.flipkart.com/jhalak-fashion-embriodered-bollywood-net-sari/p/itme88gytycpytjc?pid=SARE88GYT2Y5YP4V&al=P2CFy2OBap6n1NrsGGTkBcldugMWZuE7eGHgUTGjVrrW%2Fvx0j21%2Bxm%2FGWyz%2Bmj822kXi%2F8wLKWo%3D&ref=L%3A-4930553581367573454&srno=b_44





If the meeting is perfect when you are going for a formal dinner with your parent in laws.

1. Palazzo Pants

http://globaldesi.anitadongre.com/shop-by-category/suits/aquamarine-2-piece-set.html





This suit is offered by global desi brands that promises of offer best look and finish. It is polyester finished that is shiny and body fitted.

I hope you are buying them all as when you started meeting your future parents, you tend to shop lot ore as meeting must be pretty frequent. (wink).

Problem of two states love stories...

Well you must be thinking that two states is so old and gone that reading a blog on it is not a good option. Reading somebodies blog on the things that are gone and dead are pretty boring. For me also, if someone ask me to read a blog on kuch kuch hota hai, i will surely say that i am not fucking mad to waste 20 minutes of my busy life on reading on dead issues.

But guys, i am here to share my feeling on something else.

Yes! two states here is neither evolving about the chetan bhagat book nor alia bhatt movie, but the complication that come into your life when you get into a serious relationship with other state/ caste or religion boy.

Firstly it seems like:

1. we are so cool to deal with it, now this caste system doestn matter
2. He is working well, I am doing well in my career and else we dont care
3. Love is all enough to get married

But when actually you tend to get into all this marriage drama then it actually comes a evil knowledge that Indian society holds for years.

If you love someone and that someone is not from your caste, then this problem arises.

"sab kuch sahi hai, main problem tab ayegi tab they get to know that you are not in my caste"

WHAT???

i mean you good, you loves me, I love you and I know we are so perfect with each other but we cant marry you because we are not in one caste?

Really???

It is really difficult to digest.

You know when this caste rituals actually comes a major role?

It is in marriage rituals.

ONLY.

In some caste, couple do the feres and some other caste do the christ rituals.

Some do the gurudware feres and some do the agni feres.

BUT all the caste and religions in the end tells the same thing that the couple have to love each other, be loyal and live happily after that.

YOU agree??

You tell me, after or before marriege rituals, when these caste rituals comes in our life.

Do it comes in the clothing? do they comes in breathing? do it comes in living or do they play any role in getting  job or having babies??

NO.

They never.

They can't.

Actually.. marrying a person of different caste is not a big thing. 

It hardly matters, if we think deep to this things.

If boy's family think that they are sharma's and girl is arora, imposingly, do it matters that much that they can stop these individual to get married as these marrying rituals are different.

If it that important, then they can't marry in both kinds one by one??

And if the caste is that important then boy's family can't think that after getting married, the girl will surely transformed into Sharma after getting married

This problem, i think, only exists in India.

I dont know why?

Well I wont say more.

I just want to get it done.. easily and smoothly without much complications.

I just want to do something different and BIG.

If I can do something of this kind, i will be proud deep in my heart.

Happiness is a hope !!!

Sometimes we hope to get something very badly in our life. We can't expect any one to that fairy thing for us to get that special thing as at that time we don't want to dream only, but want to do some practical stuff.
Sitting ideal at sofa, watching television and dreaming of that special thing into your life is not enough.
Hello and welcome to my blog.
Today as my topic says "happiness is a hope" clearly stating my motive of writing this blog.
yes! you are taking me write- today I am happy. Yes I have that hope that whatever I am dreaming of from so long will be no longer a dream from me.
We all dream. We all want to get something in our life.
Same goes with me.
I too want something, that surely i don't want to write here!
But I want to share that will you all.
Today I got a hope that my journey is about to get started to get that point in my life that will be very special to me.
I am feeling like:
1. whatever I want to have, people around me sense that.
2. My dream itself making efforts to turn itself into reality.

I can see the journey of my dream making efforts and turning into reality. And this efforts of my dream is making me that HOPE that is in turn making me happy!
December is a month that will proof to be a magical month for me.
I hope
Yes! that hope is a moment of happiness for me!
2016 will be special.
My heart is beating high.
There is a smile on my face.
God bless!

Confession or Declaration ???

Well being in a relationship is not a new thing in our culture. All of us are dating and have a loving partners. Some of us love one person or fewer of us have more than one relation in there life too. But I can be sure of one  thing that one, two or more, we all have one special guy whom we love a lot and want to marry. Having a Arrange marriage is not a tradition now. I think.

Hello guys! From my last post of august, i am here again with my new post that is entirely revolve around women prospective. I am 25 now and planning to get married is most obvious thing in my life (wink).

This post is here due to few reasons. They are as follows:

1. I am the next one in the family to get married.
2. I have a bf whom I want to marry.
3. My family don't know about him
4. My bf is not sure about the age that we must get married
5. His family dont know about us
6. Whole of the world is getting married
7. Every person on this earth is forcing me to get settled (in my mind at least )

So My motive here is not to telling my parent or plan to make my wedding all more classy and great.

But I am here with one confusion in my mind that land me here in this post.

1. Should I make my mind to get married.
2. Should I tell my guy to tell his family
3. Should I tell my family
4. Should I go for fake arrange marriage searching option
5. What is a max age to stop my plan not to telling my family?
6. Is waiting is a worth option?
7. How to get the perfect suggestion?

Well.. All these questions are not easy as you all reading in this post.

Might be many of girls at my age are facing the same problem. Or something like:

1. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. But family is not agreeing.
2. Girl is ready. Boy is ready. but family (half) not agreeing.
3. Girl is ready. But boy is not ready. Family is not ready.
4. Girl is ready. Boy is not ready. family is ready.

Well I sorry for making you confuse.

We all want to get proposed from the one you actually want to get married.

But have you ever thought of the situation if you are ready, your boy is ready and somewhat your family is ready, but still you are at No where!!!

Yes!!!

What if you parents know about your relationship and and they have no problem supporting you. and adding to that your guy too want to marry you?

Bingo. you will say that you will be the most happiest person. Right??

NO!!!

Because here comes my title: Confession or Declaration ???

Parent are the one who get to know you even if you are telling them anything or not. You agree?? But at least telling them the exact situation or the partner that you want to marry is very important.

There are many families who never accept there daughter to do love marriages but there are few family too who want to support there daughter in choosing best husband for them own there own, but still girls can't able to tell them.

What should be talk about that situation??

Might be: guy is not ready in that place??

But what if i will say : guy is equally ready but not confident enough to tell his family.

Yes!!! Thats the main point!

What if every thing is well except the guy's family as they are totally ignorant about the girl. 

Whom to be blame at that situation??

Should that girl wait, tell her family at least or move on???

The situation is not that simple as it looks :)

God bless!!!