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Tuesday, 23 February 2016

Freedom of speech


The ability to speak freely and to think and to obtain information freely without any fear of restriction by the governments is my essence of freedom of speech.   It is through freedom of speech only; citizens can act freely and grow as a successful individual both in career as well as in moral terms.

In India, the Constitution assurance frees speech but not the right to hurt somebody's feelings.

Freedom to speech can easily term as freedom to express. It is every individual right to understand, to feel, to say or to inform anything that he/ she want to. It is a fundamental right that is a touchstone of all the freedom and liberty to which country governs.

According to my psyche, freedom of expression is very essential in enabling the democracy to work and grow. It is actually a fuel for decision making and not pushing anyone in the despotism. When we can access our right to vote, taking part in public writing or simply doing blogging at home, it is all about freedom expression.

Freedom of expression not only important for building someone’s dignity, but also grows in accountability and democracy

But freedom of speech is not just full proved weapon to grow and increase our accountability in nation, but violation in this right also goes hand in hand.

Here in this article I have come up with few pros and cons that are associated with Freedom of Speech.

Happy Reading!!!

On the one hand when we see lots of opportunities and growth that are coming with freedom of expression, we can too clearly see the threats and fears that are emerging too. The biggest examples here will the role of “Media”.

1.   Freedom to control:
We all clearly remember that during 1990s, there is a freedom of expression that was put on the higher level via computerization in our day to day live. The way we live, the way we work or simply we conduct our self in the society. Internet has made it so easy to communicate with the world without much barrier. It is called “freedom of expression”. When we open our facebook page and can have a access on any page of the country and person and can express our thoughts, it is called freedom of speech, but within the parameters of responsibility and lawfulness.

We will be surprise it know that freedom of speech has go through most difficult test to approved its authenticity and need in every individual life, taking care of the peace and harmony.

When we talk about freedom of speech as an fundamental human right, we have to consider authors, bloggers and designers that create and offers thoughts to others with this right to share their words.  We have to understand one more thing here. Here these personals are using freedom of speech, but on the same time, they can too control there created content by others as a form of copyrights. It is here called right to control. Here we can see right to speech and right to control hand in hand.

2. Freedom of speech and Ethics:

Rights always comes duties. When we say that we have a right to speech, we have to understand that it is always our duty to give that space to another one to enjoy him/ her freedom other than you. To go further, I want to add one example; any person can abuse anyone by using the term that it is “freedom of speech”. But here we have to understand what and where our boundaries are.


3. Freedom of Speech and Media:

Media is a powerful tool that comes with newspapers, facebook, blogging or twitter. If we can use freedom of speech here, it can surely do the miracles. But if misused this right it will cause harm and destruction. We all know that tool can never ve harmful or useful, it is all about us how we use it. A knife can be use to cut the vegetables and safe out time and that same knife can also misused to murder someone. It is all about how we take it.

Freedom of speech can either make a difference- good or bad. Media approach is very wide and can connect to large number of people. So we have to understand that the approach the media is taking must be in human goodness. It will give a big impact on people mind.

With such authority come immense errands as well, and to construct certain these responsibilities are met a quantity of laws had to be laid downward to keep a good check.

4. Freedom of Speech and Laws:

Laws clutch an immense importance to uphold poise and a sound civilization and are mainly in charge for maintaining the attained freedom. Laws are prepared to defend the rights of persons, or group’s income in a society. System and regulations help set a frontier to an extent till which persons or groups customary in the society can obstruct others autonomy, be it freedom of speech, expression or any other kind of liberty that an human being or a group of public can perhaps have.

 Freedom has forever has its worth, be it in any shape, responsibility is the outlay that is and be supposed to be salaried to preserve its factual spirit.
























Saturday, 28 November 2015

Arrange Marriage :)


KFC chaap :)

I am a bigg foody and i love spicy and cheessy stuff.

Hello and a warm welcome to all of you here at my blog.

Its a lunch time and I am very hungry. I used to google the zomato site and see all the picture of my favorite stuff there and get a feeling of eating them without much strain my my body :)

So this time I am writing a blog on my one of my most fav stuff :)
It is KFC chaap :)

You can get it from any wah ji wah outlets in Delhi :)




This is a stuff i tasted on the day when we all causine land up in very boring kind of family functions and the food is not yet started. I think that was some mata ki chawki and it was a ritual of starting up the food after the prayers.

We all were hungry and dont want to wait.

So what we have decided was LIFE SAVER :)

We sat in the car and drive up to the prashant vihar place.

If you are are new to this place, you can sense which place I am talking about. It is a hub having all the spicy food that can easily take you to the 9 th cloud :)

So what we did was- we went to the vendor having KFC chap :)

It was crowded and and have a board having a message : KFC chaap for 30 Rs ONLY :)

Wow !!!

We ordered 4 chaap that was offered with :


  • myonises
  •   red chilly saus
  • green chilly saus
  • onions

It was cripy and out of this world

If you are going to this place or you find any wah ji wah hotel neat by - JUST GO and have this stuff :)

Mark my words. you will personally thank me for sharing this with you :)

I am eating this chaap this evening..

You too try that too :)

Friday, 27 November 2015

Pre wedding shoot ideas :)



Hello Guys !!!

Nowadays when we talk about the weddings, the things that pop out of our mind are

  • shopping
  • gold
  • photography
  • Venue
Photography and social media takes a very important role in the wedding. Whether you are making this affair a huge or a simple get-together ALL you need is a good photographer and its good editing skills right.

Here in this post I have list out few very cute Pre wedding shoot ideas that will make your shoot all more charming and lively. They are easy to do.

Try them :)


  






































And lots more :)

Things Every Couple MUST Discuss Before Getting Married :)



Getting married is NOT just ROMANTIC encounters.
In my last post, few days ago I have said that inter caste married just involve complexities just in the form of "wedding rituals". Yes???

NO!!!

I want to here add one more point here, inter caste wedding doesn't revolve around just the wedding rituals or surname that girl gets, BUT it is more and most difficult to understand.

Let me give you one example-
1. In one family there is a ritual that a daughter in law of a family will cover her head in front of elders and cook food and serve and then eat that alone. and on hand, daughter in law can wear normal pajmas with there sasur ji and cook food like pasta or maggi and share the food in same plate and enjoy the meal.

This is one example.

Might be its little awkward for me to elaborate, but very simple to understand.

Caste or surname is NOT just in the name that girl gets after wedding. BUT it is a kind of the RULE of particular family that girl have to abide of.

Some gets betters and fewer get worst and some gets equal too.

Hello Guys and welcome to my blog!

Today I am here with you to discuss few points that every couple that are going to get married MUST Discuss Before Getting Married to avoid all the chaos and misunderstanding.

It is just as " read all the documents and rules before investing " (wink)

Happy Reading !!!

1. Surname

Before getting married it is very important to talk with the guy before getting married in the regard of the post wedding name/ surname. In few family, there is a ritual that the name of the girl will the change as per the requirement of future family. It is actually weird but it happens in some cases. Changing surnames is very normal here but how you will take that, it will matters like:


  • Sia arora
  • Sia raj sharma
  • Sia sharma
  • Sia arora Sharma

Many men want there lady to change to option 2 here. But it will depends person to person. This change of surname or simply the name MUST be discuss beforehand. 

2. Vegan/ Non Vegan


Eating in India is very important thing. What if the husband is vegan and girl is not OR vice versa??? obviously girl have to change.

NO!!! the story is not that easy as it looks.

Please make sure this topic is discussed between you both:)

If boy is non vegan

  • If boy is non vegan than cooking in house will be allowed nor not.
  • Who will cook
  • who will wash non vegan cookware after using'
  • How many times these dishes will be cooked in houses
  • How about children?? will they be non vagan ONLY??
If boy is vegan

  • Can girl eat no vegan dishes at home
  • can she she cook at home
  • Can she make the children non vegan?
UFF!!!

3. Saving

This is very important to understand the amount of salary they both get and how much they save. Saving is very important. Make sure you both are transparent and make sure a wise decision for future and children.
 
They are main 3 things that you must add in your conversation to keep the wedding safe and less chaotic :)

God bless :)











How to save in low salary ?

13 ways to save money on a low income college retirement

Having a good income is not a easy thing. There are people who are getting in lakhs from there jobs and having a luxurious life. but we too have that set of people as well that too suffers from 20k a month to deal with family dreams. home expenses and all more that we can never think of in one go!

Hello everyone.

Today this blog is for those who comes comes in the income group of 15k to 25k and dreams to have there own house.

This is not difficult. The one thing that you must keep in your mind is that - smaller steps always leads to your destiny. Something is ALWAYS better than NOTHING.

If you keep on thinking that we will save when you have 50k of salary, then we will buy our dream house, then mark my word friend that "one day " will never gonna come.

Present is the BEST day to plan your finance and SAVE for your future.


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1. Plan


  • Add your salaries ( you and your partner)
  • Allocate the expense of the food and household expense
  • Take down the renting cost
  • Take down the entertainment rate.
Keep in kind that you must plan a outing once a month so that you dont feel the burden of the saving so hard that you quite it in the middle.

Suppose:

You are earning : Rs 20 K
Your husband is earning : Rs 21 K
Total: Rs 41 K
Rent : 15k
Food: 10k
car EMI: 3k
Total expense: 15 +10+ 3= 28k
Rest = 41- 28= 13k

Always take 3k as safety clouse here.

You can safe in this case around 10k per month :)

10k a month mean= 12 x 10= Rs 1,20,000 rs.

You know guys, you just need 10 lakh around as down payment charges if you are buying your house under home loan :)

Just imagine you can take 120000 as yearly saving, you can touch your 10 lk in just 7 to 8 years. And if you have gold reserve with you that you have gathered in your wedding rituals , you can too use them here.

So, if you add your gold reserve here,

Suppose you have 3-4 lks gold items with you, you can easily get your dream home in just 5 years!!!

It will not only save you on spending on renting BUT also giving family better security and life :0

So Safe!!!

Your small saving can leads to better life in next 5 years :)










Thursday, 26 November 2015

That one Quality !!!


We are are into relationship. We all have boyfriends. We want to get married to whom we love right??? But Have you ever think that as  girlfriend what you expect our boyfriend to be  and MUCH more from our husbands?
Hello and welcome to my blog.
Today I get a very simple yet complicated topic into my blog.
The transformation of a bf into husband is itself a BIG achievement.
YES!!!
NO!!
I mean the process when you are having love marriage, the main topic we keep in our mind is that now you have taken your love into the finish line and now you call call yourselves as WINNERS.
BUT letme tell you all girls that please wait for a minute and decide what is the main quality you or your mother always talks about that she wishes in her husband.
Is that quality is available in your boy friend?

Just read this pointers-

1. We meet weekly with them
2. Usually we meet alone
3. Main thing we people do are bike ride, fooding or taking out pictures.
4. Discussing main life saving problem are never in your plan.

RIGHT?

But do you think that these four things are good enough to judge someone as your life partners???

NO!!!

I want several qualities in my husband- hopefully you too have :)



1. Support me in my decision
2. Don't restrict me in financial matters, i mean he wont take all my salary and force me to spend as per his needs. I want to spend as my own mind. I want to make house renovations, save for my new home, save for my children or just save for my 2nd honeymoon. That will be an individual choice.  I personally don't want my husband to restrict me in this kind.
3. Respect me and my decision in front of his family.
4. Respect my family as well
5. Must be romantic.

All these qualities can never be judged in love relationship tenure.

We never think that way.

But without talking these issues in our mind, if we tend to get married and sense that your bf is matured enough to understand all these is not his not ours MISTAKE.

You all have to understand that wedding required lots of money and respect. Whole society is involve in this

RIGHT???
What if these quality are NOT available in your so called perfect bf that you have married to???

1. You will compromise and your life will suck.
2. You will fight back and make your family worst and your future a Hell bad.
3. You will take a divorce and make your family suffer for no reason??

That can be ever worst than this.

I just want to complete this write up just be saying that before taking this wedding decision, please girls take a wise choice and tell your guy about your expectation from him.

God bless :)


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